You can connect to your own self-signed mysql databases from windows over ssl, using commercial clients, and even with a simple perl script. I think the windows binary of mysql administrator available from mysql.org is compiled w/o ssl support. I would suggest you to download the source for mysql administrator, and compile it for windows architecture yourself, ensuring that you compile in an ssl-capable client library.
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