Safety/stability depends to the underlying MyISAM. About max size for MERGE tables, there is potentially no max size as it limits by available disk space. The disk size of MERGE tables are very small, it only needs to store the list of MyISAM tables name in the MERGE table in a text file, in addition of a .frm file.
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